Sometimes, in our eagerness to make a good first impression, we talk too much (and end up boring the other person to death) or show off our accomplishments (and come off looking arrogant instead of accomplished). So what's the real trick to impressing others? You'd be surprised. … [Read more...] about Surprising ways to make a good first impression
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How to use NLP to improve your relationship with your boss
NLP is the study of the structure of 'subjective experience.' We all view our experiences subjectively. It's like the story of the six blind men who encountered an elephant. Someone touched the tusk and said the elephant was a 'spear.' The second touched the elephant's trunk and thought 'hose.' Everyone had different conclusions, each correct. By studying how your boss … [Read more...] about How to use NLP to improve your relationship with your boss
How to find a career mentor
What career secret do Oprah Winfrey, Bill Gates, Plato and Yves Saint Laurent have in common? They all had mentors. Oprah had Maya Angelou; Bill Gates had Warren Buffet, YSL had Christian Dior, and Plato had Socrates. While they all had great skill and drive, their mentors gave them the wisdom and the guidance to super-size their success. And you can too. This article explains … [Read more...] about How to find a career mentor
Tips on preparing for your annual performance review
One of the most important tips for successfully asking for a raise is to time your request during your annual performance review. But you can't just twiddle your thumbs and wait for your boss to fill up the forms—especially if your boss isn't the type who'll automatically give you credit for all that you do. Here are some ways to grab the bull by the horns and makes sure … [Read more...] about Tips on preparing for your annual performance review
How to adjust to a new boss
How do you handle a new boss? You may be feeling anxious, and have every right to be. You have to deal with a new personality, possibly have to prove yourself all over again, and many times a new boss can signal a shift in goals or systems—especially if he or she was brought in precisely to make important changes. Here are some important things to remember as you adjust to … [Read more...] about How to adjust to a new boss