One of the difficulties of being a man who has come of age is dealing with the opposite sex. It is a completely new and strange field to navigate and while communicating with them is already difficult enough, then asking them out on a date is completely alien territory. Asking a girl out on a date will definitely bring up all of a man’s insecurities. He’ll think of so many things why a girl won’t go out with him – already playing the rejections in his head when it hasn’t even happened yet. But the key to asking girls out on a date is really simple. It’s about how you show yourself to them and who you are as a person. Of course, self confidence is very important as well because it will show your mettle as a person. Here are some tips that will help make a girl say yes when you ask her out on a date.
Grooming is a very important aspect in the dating game. Always be well-groomed. Don’t ever leave your home looking unkempt, or worse, looking like you didn’t even take a shower. Looks are not really that important but looking like you take care of yourself does.
Grooming does not solely revolve around hygiene, it also includes how you present yourself. This means clothes that look nice, clean and fit you. This doesn’t mean you have to buy the latest designer clothes or the newest fads. It’s all about showing that you’re well groomed, healthy and looking like you take your appearance seriously. This helps project a very positive first impression, which is extremely important.
Grooming is a 24/7 commitment. You shouldn’t waver one bit and revert to your old, sloppy self. Always be aware of how you look even if you’re just going out for a short errand because you don’t know who you will bump into.
When you do ask a girl out on a date, make sure that you know what you’re going to say to her. If you need to think about what you need to say and practice it, then do it. Just make sure that you say it confidently. Nothing kills a moment than you standing there in front of her, stuttering like a fool because you don’t know what you’re going to say to her.
Do take the time to flatter the girl you’re interested in. Compliments go a long way, so try to give her compliments whenever there’s an opportunity. Rude behavior is not going to get you anywhere, least of all a date with her.
When asking her for a date you can use a little humor to lighten the situation. Nothing can disarm a girl more than making her laugh. Just make sure that you don’t tell a dirty joke or make naughty innuendoes.
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