Girls love to talk about the guys that interest them. It may be a guy in school, or at the office. But what’s more interesting is finding out if a guy is also interested in you. But this is one thing that is not as easy to determine. But if you know to look for certain tell-tale signs, you’ll have a better chance of determining whether a guy likes you or not.
Most women think that a man who makes an effort to listen to them, keep eye contact and ask questions that are obviously asked to get to know them better and with a genuine interest in their answers is definitely interested in them. Although it may be so, there is also a big chance that the man is not interested in them at all. Men who have impeccable manners, have a well developed emotional maturity and who is confident do exist and these actions may just mean that he is one of these kinds of men. There are also men who do this just to engage women in a slightly deeper level even though they are attached. They do this as a way of ‘playing the field’ so to speak but not in a manner that will get them into trouble.
One sign that a man may be interested in you is when he starts asking other people about you. He may talk to your colleagues and friends and ask seemingly innocuous questions about you. This may be his way of getting more information about you because he is interested and getting some facts before he actually asks you out.
If the man who is asking questions about you to other people asks you out then it is proof that he is really interested in you. The next thing to observe is how he prepares for the date. If he shows that he is really trying his best to make the date a special one – thinking of a great way to spend the date, spending a lot of money and genuinely concerned to give you the best time during the date then it is another proof that he is interested in you. Now if he follows this date by asking for other dates with you then you can be sure that he is already looking at establishing a deeper bond with you, possibly because he wants to have a relationship with you.
You may also want to read our article on signs that someone is flirting with you.
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