We're raised to always do our best. That's good, to some extent: we need to push ourselves, persevere, and to avoid the temptation of mediocrity. But what if the desire for perfection becomes paralyzing? We become afraid of failure, and ashamed of mistakes. We undervalue our accomplishments, because somebody else did it better. We constantly seek the approval of others— … [Read more...] about How to overcome fear of failure
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5 Steps to Getting the Life you Want
The New Year brings new beginnings and blessings—if you open yourself to them. Leave behind the worries and negative beliefs that could trap you in the past and blind you to the good things that lie ahead. This isn't just part of the 'fluffy positive thinking movement.' It's common sense! You can only see what you look for, and you can only achieve what you attempt. So if you … [Read more...] about 5 Steps to Getting the Life you Want
Recession-Proof your Job
The recession has not only left millions unemployed, it has redefined the workplace for the lucky ones who are still hanging—by the skin of their teeth—to their jobs. Thanks to freeze-hire policies, you may have to do the work of five people. Quotas are higher, pressure is greater. Nevertheless, it's this kind of environment where you have the greatest opportunity to shine. … [Read more...] about Recession-Proof your Job
How to be more Assertive at Work
Many people have a hard time asserting their ideas or emotions. They hide negative feelings (disappointment, frustration) or avoid conflicts. The result? Resentment and miscommunication. Honesty is not only good for your health (you don't want to spend the rest of your life biting back what you feel, right?) it can also make you more productive and efficient. Imagine what … [Read more...] about How to be more Assertive at Work
How to Sound more Confident and Credible
You know you need to be ‘visible' in the office to earn a promotion or even respect, but how? It's not enough to just speak up at meetings, you have to sound smart—so when people hear you, they know you're someone they can respect. Here are some tips on how to appear more confident, assertive, and professional. … [Read more...] about How to Sound more Confident and Credible