Sensual touching is a very erotic activity. And contrary to what people often think, sensual touching is actually a two-way street. As your partner derives pleasure from you touching her skin, you also get pleasure feeling your partner’s skin. The most wonderful moment is whenever you and your partner are in tune with each other and both have one goal – to pleasure each other.
Touch is something that women absolutely love. But even though women love it, different women would react to it. Some will be more in tune with their sensuality and will be open to it, while others will be more reserved and will be quite closed to it. You should create opportunities to touch your partner more often so that they’ll get used to it and drop their inhibitions. By touching your partner often you’ll also elicit more feelings of comfort and attraction from her. She’ll also gain feelings of safety and sexual excitement.
When you touch her try and look into her eyes. By holding her gaze you will increase the intensity of what she is feeling. Don’t be discouraged if she gazes down, she’ll eventually look at you again and you can hold that gaze now.
You can also try exploring her body by touching her in different ways. Allow your hands to explore her body while paying attention to areas where she responds more positively. Women have different erogenous zones and it’s your job to find out where those are so that the next time you touch her, you’ll know the areas where she will respond more positively. This will be an added treat for her.
The way you touch her is also going to make a lot of contribution to how she feels in the end. Make sure that your touch is light and delicate. Use the tips of your fingers instead of the palms of your hands. At some points you can use the palms of your hands but do it gently. Caress her back and her neck. Then the inside and the back of legs. You can also gently caress her face and her upper arms.
One of the things that is most often forgotten when touching a woman is her hair. Women love it when you gently stroke their hair. Women feel a sense of love and security just by doing this. You can actually start your sensual touching with the gentle stroking of her hair and then work yourself down to her face and eventually her body.
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