Are you a people pleaser? Do you crave attention and affirmation from others? Are you too sensitive to criticism and rejection? Does the fear of what other people will think stop you from doing what you love, ask for what you need, or say 'No!' when you don't want to do something? It's natural to want to be liked, and being polite and cooperative can help you in many ways … [Read more...] about How to stop being a “people pleaser”
Tips on picking stationery
Email and text messaging may be the quickest way to communicate, but they will never replace the handwritten note. There are many occasions where you need to send a handwritten card or a letter—to express sincere thanks or sympathy, personalize a gift, or make an impression on an important client. Stationery can also be a reflection of your unique style and personality. … [Read more...] about Tips on picking stationery
Can’t say “No!” to your family and friends?
You're a 'nice person' with a can-do attitude and a generous spirit. But there's a fine line between being accommodating and…being a doormat. The difference lies in the intention. Do you want to be kind, or do you want to be liked? The need to please, or what some people call affirmation addiction, can make it hard for you to draw personal boundaries or even to get any real … [Read more...] about Can’t say “No!” to your family and friends?
Are you a social moron?
You can be smart, successful, and generally believe that you're a 'nice' person. But maybe, without realizing it, you have habits that drive other people crazy. These are some of the social faux paus that could be hurting your relationships. We know you don't mean it, but the fact is, these habits could be pushing other people away—or creating obstacles in your relationship. … [Read more...] about Are you a social moron?
How to have great conversations with your grandchildren
We'd love to stay close to our grandchildren, but it can be tough to bridge the generation gap when they grow older. We ask them about their day, and they say 'Fine.' We try to give advice, but their eyes glaze over in boredom. It can be even harder when we don't regularly see our grandchildren, because they live far away. Bridge the gap with these tips on how to have great … [Read more...] about How to have great conversations with your grandchildren