It's one thing to overcome your shyness and talk with ease; it's another to actually say something interesting. Unfortunately, there are a lot of very talkative and sociable people who are also extremely boring. They talk too much, or say nothing worth remembering. People see them coming and think, 'Uh-oh,' and either move away or politely stay but tune them out completely. … [Read more...] about 6 secrets to being a great conversationalist
communication
How to avoid office miscommunication
Email wars, meeting stand-offs, delays caused by confusing directions… Miscommunication can significantly lower your company's productivity and morale. But many people have difficulty organizing and explaining their ideas. They're smart, skilled, and often sincere, but their poor communication skills make them ineffective managers. Here are some tips for effective … [Read more...] about How to avoid office miscommunication
How to be honest with someone without hurting their feelings
Families and real friends don't sugarcoat truths. On the one hand, that's great. Only someone who really loves us will tell us something we don't want to hear, so we won't end up hurting ourselves. But timing and tone are everything. This article will help you deliver that dreaded news or comment without hurting the other person's feelings, or worse, your relationship. … [Read more...] about How to be honest with someone without hurting their feelings
How to Get Your Husband to Talk
"My husband doesn't talk to me.' 'My husband tunes me out.' Or, 'He has so much to say to his co-workers or friends, but he doesn't seem interested in what I say.' These are some of the complaints that women raise about their non-communicative husbands. Marriage experts explain why men get so monosyllabic, plus how to get him to finally say something other than 'Okay,' … [Read more...] about How to Get Your Husband to Talk
How to be more Assertive at Work
Many people have a hard time asserting their ideas or emotions. They hide negative feelings (disappointment, frustration) or avoid conflicts. The result? Resentment and miscommunication. Honesty is not only good for your health (you don't want to spend the rest of your life biting back what you feel, right?) it can also make you more productive and efficient. Imagine what … [Read more...] about How to be more Assertive at Work