You're smart, funny, beautiful. You have no trouble getting dates. But how come none of those ever work out into a real, long term relationship? The guy asks you out, you have dinner a few times, but after a while his interest fizzles out, he never calls again. Maybe it's bad luck, maybe you're dating the wrong guys, or maybe you could be unconsciously sending out cues that … [Read more...] about Does your personality scare off guys?
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How to stop being a “people pleaser”
Are you a people pleaser? Do you crave attention and affirmation from others? Are you too sensitive to criticism and rejection? Does the fear of what other people will think stop you from doing what you love, ask for what you need, or say 'No!' when you don't want to do something? It's natural to want to be liked, and being polite and cooperative can help you in many ways … [Read more...] about How to stop being a “people pleaser”
Signs a person is lying to you
One of the most interesting TV series being aired right now is the show Lie To Me. The show is about Dr. Cal Lightman, played by actor Tim Roth, who is an expert in determining if a person is lying by studying so-called microexpressions. Just imagine having the ability to know if a person is lying to you. The benefits are endless. You may not become as good as Dr. … [Read more...] about Signs a person is lying to you
Can’t say “No!” to your family and friends?
You're a 'nice person' with a can-do attitude and a generous spirit. But there's a fine line between being accommodating and…being a doormat. The difference lies in the intention. Do you want to be kind, or do you want to be liked? The need to please, or what some people call affirmation addiction, can make it hard for you to draw personal boundaries or even to get any real … [Read more...] about Can’t say “No!” to your family and friends?
How to make a great first impression
You have less than five seconds to make a good impression. What you wear, how you carry yourself, and the first words out of your mouth all make a quick and subconscious impact on the person that you're talking to. While it is possible to change that first impression, we'll be honest: you'll have to work very hard, and very long, to make your point. Save yourself that … [Read more...] about How to make a great first impression